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Why do we fall for some people instantly, clash over small things, and feel completely understood by a few? Your zodiac signs won't give you every answer, but they offer a beautiful place to begin.
A warm, practical guide for husbands and wives, boyfriends and girlfriends, lovers, and new or long-time couples, whatever their gender or stage of relationship.
Delivered as an instant download (PDF and ePub), so you can start reading right away.
Love by the Zodiac: A Couple's Guide to Compatibility, Closeness and Lasting Love is a 14-chapter e-book by Alex Afonso. In it, Western astrology provides the map: the twelve signs, their elements and modalities, and the angles between any two of them. Depth psychology and spiritual philosophy provide the compass, with ideas inspired by Carl Jung, Alan Watts, Abraham-Hicks and Teal Swan. Together they give couples a vocabulary for needs, differences and repair.
The book treats a zodiac sign as a weather pattern, not a prison. It will not tell you whether you are "meant to be." What it gives you is a way to name what you need, understand what your partner needs, and talk about your differences without turning them into a war.
It is for anyone who wants to understand a partner a little better, and themselves a little better too: husbands and wives, boyfriends and girlfriends, lovers, newlyweds and long-time companions. It works for any couple, of any gender, at any stage. If you have ever wondered why you fall for some people instantly, clash with others over small things, and feel completely understood by only a few, this guide is for you.
Learn the four elements (Fire, Earth, Air and Water) and the three modalities (Cardinal, Fixed and Mutable), the simple grammar behind all twelve signs. Rules of thumb show what to expect from any pair, from easy shared languages to couples who need more translation.
Every sign has its own page covering what it needs, its gift and its shadow, how it behaves under stress, what helps, and one small practice to try. Each page also shows the sign's natural flow, natural allies and magnetic opposite.
Count the signs between yours and your partner's, and discover the shape of your dynamic: Mirror, Neighbours, Allies, Friction, Flow, Adjustment or Magnets. Each comes with ease and spark ratings and a plain-language explanation. No maths required.
Fire with Fire, Fire with Earth, Water with Air and every other combination: the chemistry, what works, where it gets tricky, what to focus on for long-term love, and one exercise to try together.
A full compatibility map, followed by one page for each sign covering all twelve possible partners. Every pairing has a dynamic, ease and spark ratings, and a focus that names what you bring together and the habit each of you should watch.
Your Sun sign is the headline; these three placements are the love story. The Moon shows what you need to feel safe, Venus shows how you give and receive love, and Mars shows how you desire, pursue and argue. Short pages cover each placement in every sign.
Four ideas, paraphrased and simplified, each with a practice you can try tonight: the mirror and the shadow (Jung), the dance and not the destination (Watts), focus, feeling and the better-feeling thought (Abraham-Hicks), and needs, the inner child and authenticity (Teal Swan).
Every couple argues. What predicts lasting love is whether you repair. A five-move sequence (pause, name, look in, reach and repair) comes with phrases that help, phrases to retire, and what each element needs when it is stressed.
A warm, practical cheat-sheet for the person who loves each Sun sign, written in the friendly, story-like spirit of classic sign portraits.
Three worksheets to fill in together (your couple's chart, a needs inventory and a shared vision), followed by four weeks of one small action a day: awareness, communication, intimacy and play, and vision.
Aries (courage, initiative, spark). Taurus (loyalty, sensuality, steadiness). Gemini (curiosity, wit, connection). Cancer (nurture, memory, home). Leo (warmth, loyalty, radiance). Virgo (devotion, detail, service). Libra (harmony, beauty, partnership). Scorpio (depth, truth, transformation). Sagittarius (freedom, honesty, meaning). Capricorn (commitment, ambition, integrity). Aquarius (originality, friendship, freedom). Pisces (compassion, imagination, surrender).
You can read the book straight through or jump to the page you need. Looking for your own sign? Go to the chapter on the twelve signs. Comparing two signs? Use the elemental pairings and the sign-by-sign compatibility pages. In a rough patch? Turn to conflict first aid. Want to practise together? Use the workbook and the 30-day ritual. It is delivered as an instant download in PDF and ePub formats, so you can start reading right away.
Astrology and the philosophies referenced in this book are offered for reflection and personal growth. They are not science, prediction, or professional advice, and the book is not therapy. If your relationship involves fear, control or violence, please reach out to a qualified professional or a local support service rather than a horoscope.
Carl Jung, Alan Watts, Abraham-Hicks, Teal Swan and Linda Goodman are credited as inspiration only. The book offers original summaries and interpretations, and is not affiliated with or endorsed by any of them.
Alex Afonso has been drawn to the esoteric and mystical sciences since a young age. In sessions, Alex works with Tarot, astrology, dice, face reading, Kabbalah and more, with the purpose of helping people find clarity and awareness. Love by the Zodiac brings that spirit to relationships: astrology offers a map, and awareness lets us choose, minute by minute, how we show up for the people we love.
You get the complete e-book as an instant download in PDF and ePub formats: the guide to the twelve signs in love, the elemental pairings, the sign-by-sign compatibility pages, the Moon, Venus and Mars guide, the conflict first aid method, and the couple's workbook with the 30-day closeness ritual.
No. It does not predict the future or tell you whether to stay or leave. It gives you a shared language for your needs and differences, and small, kind practices to build closeness.
No. The book explains the elements and modalities from the start, and shows how to read the angle between two signs by simply counting the signs between them.
You will need your date, time and place of birth, and the same for your partner, which any free birth-chart calculator can turn into your Moon, Venus and Mars signs. If you do not know your birth time, check your Moon sign carefully, since it can change signs within a day.
It is written for couples at any stage and of any gender, but it is also for anyone who wants to understand a partner better, and themselves too.
The e-book is currently ฿350 THB, and you can buy it securely through the button at the top of this page.